Christian men - Please help?

I am 35 and want to be married. The last guy that I dated was in the middle of a divorce...he had alot of baggage. I had no problem with sorting through that with him because at my age everyone has some baggage...I may not have much since I have not been married but I am willing to go through some with someone else. The guy that I dated was a Baptist Youth Leader and gave sermons at his church. He was very involved in his spirituality and I loved that about him. We were great together.... I put our relationship in a "time-out" till he could complete his divorce because I felt conviction that he may want to go back to his ex. He became angry with me and retaliated against me out of his woundedness that had nothing to do with me. He met a girl at the bar, got engaged to her, purchased a house and finshed his divorce and remarried - in that order. He said that the timing was off for us and he met a lovely lady to spend the rest of his life with.